Week 16 – Kindnesses in Kind

It’s Kindness week!

Kindness

Shouldn’t every week be kindness week? That’s how a young lady working in the drive through window at Tim Horton’s responded after I told her it’s Kindness week. I laughed but she was right of course. Every week SHOULD be Kindness week so why isn’t it? Every day we’re surrounded by family, friends, co-workers and others we see on a regular basis. Is a little kindness too much to ask? Seems like we have plenty of opportunities. Even if we miss most of them we could still perform some act of kindness several times a day.

I consider myself a pretty considerate, patient and kind person but I wondered what people would say if I asked. I thought about that a while and decided not to ask. People are to kind to say no, right? Instead I decided to ramp up my observer mode and watch their reactions as I made special efforts to be helpful and kind. What a hoot! I think I actually surprised some people like store clerks and those in the drive-thru who got free food courtesy of my gift card. Others like my youngest daughters took it more in stride. They liked when daddy made their bed every day.

It all worked so well I wonder why we don’t do this all the time? I don’t recall one negative reaction. Usually people were a little surprised and always pleased that another human being took a couple seconds to be kind for no particular reason. I admit I enjoyed it too. It’s really fun and more than a little heartwarming to brightening someone else’s day.

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Is it really so difficult? No. Physically demanding? No. Emotionally dangerous? No.  It just requires us to give up our naval-gazing a bit, to change our focus from ourselves to those around us. Once we look up and notice the world around us things get pretty amazing. There are people in the other cars stuck in traffic. I wonder what would happen if I let one of them change lanes in front of me…The sunset still looks amazing from my car. And we had a great talk about that on the way home from school. In fact sneaking in a little more daddy time is a kindness for me. Who says I shouldn’t be kind to myself? In fact that’s a key part of the recipe. Be kind to yourself!

Wow, this kindness stuff is pretty good mojo. Already in this post I’ve said I laughed, What a hoot!, I enjoyed it, It’s really fun, and …things get pretty amazing. It feels good and I’m sure it’s good for my blood pressure.

Why don’t I just keep doing it after Kindness week? Shouldn’t every week be kindness week?

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11 thoughts on “Week 16 – Kindnesses in Kind

  1. Chuck Bartok

    I agree that we all should keep the Random Act of Kindness exercise should become part of our daily lives.
    Utilizing these exercises is making that possibility a reality.
    Looking forward to following the rest of your journey

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  2. Dennis Andrews

    I’m with you Big D!—I was thinking the very same thing…I’m going to make observing and RAKing a life long habit…Your family is loving Daddy more than ever I’m guessing!—-like you, I was raised to be sensitive, respectful and courteous, but it’s at a whole new level and the awareness is through the roof!

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    1. Dennis Post author

      Thanks for your support Dennis! I was brought up with my Irish grandmother living in the house. My Italian grandmother was a school teacher. Like you said I’ve had those habits my whole life but the MKMMA has made me more aware and present in the moment of those experiences. Being more aware also allows me to add more feeling (Law of Dual Thought) to the experiences. The result is that I’m also blessed and my mind boggles at the ripples that are created. You nailed this one!

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  3. Cindy

    You are absolutely right. There is no problem to be kind everyday. It gives a lot back. Like you said you enjoyed it. Thank you for your blog. I really enjoyed it.

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  4. Stephen J. Rosen

    “Random acts of kindness” … or, perhaps
    “Give more, get more”

    Two phrases of four simple words each. On their own, nothing special, but strung in a sentence and their power is infinite!

    Words… to live by.
    Peace, love and respect dude!
    Steve

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  5. Debbie Couillard

    I’m with you! Every week is Kindness Week! Heck, how about everyday is Kindness Day. It’s amazing how such minor little things we do can impact others so majorly! Thank you for sharing!

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  6. Elaine Archambeau

    Yes, and I know you are by your comments. It is easier for you than many, for that you are blessed.

    I think when we get to the point of kindess without thinking kindness we have really internalized it… on our way!!

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